Friday, May 17, 2013

Despicable Tactics - Attacking YOUR Upbringing

In my various “debates”, I have never encountered nor have I heard from someone else that  the person they were opposing dared to bring in upbringing as a “weapon”. There is that button in each and every one of us, when pushed, sets off cunt-icidal tendencies: it’s your parents or whomever raised you as a child. No matter how well or badly you might get along with them, any slight their way is beyond the pale. They could incriminate your spouse, your kids (maybe not your kids), your brother, your sister, your cousin, your uncle, aunt, but once it’s comes to the people who raised you, you know there will be blood!

I write this because I love and honor my parents. But, they did their best for which I’m grateful. They love and understand me (to the best of their abilities) but they know I’ve become my own person and will do what I see fit for myself. My father passed away in 2004. Although, we didn’t quite comprehend each other, I miss him. Love ya pops!

Once again we venture back into Facebook group NATIVES OF LA UNION, a group that reminds of how the Ilocos region of the Philippine island of Luzon was mentioned as being similar to the Wild West of the United States of the 1800’s in the book Memories of Philippine Kitchens by Besa and Dorotan. And, indeed it was chaotic with no true reason for existing except to be a time-suck.

I had posted in the group a picture of a chalkboard with the words…BeliefsAndBehavior
“Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, you behavior does.”
I drew such a “response”. Little did I know that I was being led into some cyber bullying, but by grown-ups.
I hadn’t paid too much to the group as it was rather uninteresting and were what I call typical of a very “catholic” population. Quotes from the Bible, bless this, bless that, people switching code when posting between three languages. But, little did I know that someone either left or was banned or booted for not being “Christian”. In fact, his was an atheist. So, apparently, posting the picture above marked me for bullying.

Long story short, I was in an argument with three people in the group, namely, Norma Tesch Angel, Teresa De Jesus (who I like to call the “C” word) and some other douche, Imigdio something or another. I’ll just call him “Tidtad Baka” (I picked up the “Kitchens” book: sounded good) Imigdio tried to fuck with my logic. Something about beliefs and thoughts lack of choice. I wouldn’t be surprised if he felt victorious in some way. Teresa, kept hammering away. Someone interjected with a good example of beliefs being incongruent with behavior: the Crusades. Now, Ms. Teresa, apparently had no idea of what they were…
”The Crusades: is that a book?” - Teresa De Jesus 
Battle-of-Ager-Sanguinis
Image from the article presented to Teresa:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crusades
And, asked about them. No she didn't want to read about them because she didn’t want a website. I conjectured that it could be because of the crusades that there is some distrust and lingering tension between the two Abrahamic traditions. Teresa smelled blood and decided to use that to “crucify” me, alleging that I was “judgmental” to ALL Christians. According to her logic, Crusaders were Christians and saying anything about them also applied to modern-day Christians. Obviously her logic is flawed. I pointed out her error in interpretation, but she wouldn't relent. Tidtad Baka chimed in and asked “Are you atheist?”. It’s apparent that they both share the same delusional and flawed logic. They continued, I quit and they considered it a victory. (Wow! It’s so reminiscent of teenagers and here we have what I would assume were adults.)
But, they wouldn't let it be. And, so I lost my cool and cursed Teresa and Tidtad. They’ll expect something by the end of the week. Well, that gave them more fodder.

According to my sources, Norma and Teresa are the same rotten apples that feel from the same fetid tree. So, Norma chimes is and off we go. Exchanging insults. Teresa and Norma feigning to be “gracious”. I used the “C” word over and over again. And, that’s when Norma decides to insult my parents. And, Teresa decides to as well. Teresa too lazy to type came up with one of the crudest acronyms I've seen: MYMP, “Make your mother proud”. Once it got to that point I relented.

My attacks were directed ONLY at them. Never in my ranting's did I involve any other family member of theirs, except for each other if they are related. I didn't mention their parents, their kids (Gods, I hope they didn't procreate), their spouses (perish the thought), the cats, their dogs, their gerbils or hamsters. Nope. It was just them.

I did have a bit of a chuckle. Apparently, they didn't know what the word cunt meant. Posts shortly after having lost access to the group (I've been banned) showed that they thought it was an Irish corruption of “can’t”. Post like, “I cunt keep my eyes off of you” still give me a hearty laugh.
There is another site I was invited to and there I came across someone whose parents were also degraded.
“…For the woman who once asked whose standards is it for showing good manners just showed her lack of early education from her parents…” - Norma Tesch Angel in the Facebook group “NATIVES OF LA UNION”
What a CUNT?!

It was in response to someone who “questioned” Norma’s being “judgmental”. I guess if you want to win something or “put” someone in their place Norma, you will do it at all costs, to the point of reasoning that it’s their parents fault?! I guess that same can be said of you. Nothing more than that. If you can’t measure yourself according to your same yard, then really, do you have a foot to stand on? It’s sad that she is an aide of some sorts… And, with children. What was that? Last I saw, she was admin of the group. Which would explain why I was removed and banned. Such an awful admin.

Anyways, it’s rather pitiful that for women of their apparent advanced age, her and her sister’s faiths need to be bolstered by bullying others on that page, especially if they might hold beliefs slightly or even vastly different from their interpretations of what “belief” should be. Yes, you are very good “Christians” ladies, very good counter-examples of the teachings of your faith’s founder by your despicable actions we can learn a great deal about how we ARE better than you… judgment aside. Open-mouthed smile

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